As an autistic I often avoid eye contact to listen better, finding it exhausting and distracting, needing understanding and alternative communication. closeup of a woman’s eyes, natural In social situations, I often find eye contact uncomfortable or exhausting. Many people see this as a problem that needs fixing because they consider eye contact essential for socialContinue reading “How My Approach to Eye Contact Helps Me Listen: Autism and Social Interaction”
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The Complexity of Romantic Relationships Between Autistic and Non-Autistic Individuals
Romantic relationships between autistic and non-autistic individuals require mutual understanding, adaptation, and support to navigate unique challenges and leverage each partner’s strengths for a successful relationship. Photo by Alejandra Quiroz on Unsplash Relationships are inherently complex, and this complexity is heightened when individuals with and without autism form a romantic partnership or a family. Scientific researchContinue reading “The Complexity of Romantic Relationships Between Autistic and Non-Autistic Individuals”
Against the excessive use of ‘embracing autism’ in autistic stories
A text against the excessive use of ‘embracing autism’ because embracing autism is not always possible.
Inside the Autside: a misfit manifesto … a book review
A book review of the book “Inside the Autide: A Misfit Manifesto” by Martine Mussies, an insightful journey through her life as a bisexual, autistic woman in the Netherlands. Through personal stories, poetry and scientific insights, Martine emphasizes the unique experience of life with autism and argues for inclusiveness and appreciation of neurodiversity. The book challenges stereotypes and offers a deeper understanding of autism.
Happiness in autistic adults: some thoughts on a study
In this blog, I discuss the research of Dutch educational psychologist and autism coach Birsen Başar on happiness among adults with autism. Her research offers insightful findings on the meaning of happiness for adults with autism. The study, based on the experiences of 369 adults with autism, delves into their perception of happiness, factors contributing to it, and the role of their environment. The research highlights the need for tailored approaches to support the well-being and happiness of adults with autism, while emphasizing the importance of social support and societal inclusion. Following this, I also write a personal reflection.
The Power of Understanding in a World of Autism
In a world of constant change, understanding and including people with autism is vital. As an adult with autism, I stress the importance of empathy and comprehension, emphasizing that each individual’s needs and qualities differ. Mutual understanding and shared responsibilities can lead to a more inclusive and compassionate society where all can thrive regardless of neurological differences.
My message to all those involved with autistic people … World Autism Day
My message to all those involved with autistic people on this World Autism Day