This article unpacks the popular saying “If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism.” It explains how the quote usefully challenges stereotypes, but can also erase shared autistic struggles, excuse employers from making changes, and turn autism into an “impossible mystery.”
Autistic people are unique, but not so unique that patterns disappear. This piece argues that overusing the famous “one person with autism” quote can undermine solidarity, shift all responsibility onto individuals, and let schools and workplaces avoid simple, helpful adjustments—while stressing the need for both general knowledge and personal understandin